When it comes to me doing the right thing I hit the wall that has ‘YOUR WRONG’ written across it in large bold Red lettering. When I don’t do anything at all, same fucking wall knocks me on my ass, and then falls on top of me. So when it comes to the social services staff, what the fuck is the right thing to do? A sea of confusing information, and steps to follow, yet when you do follow them, the bad parent speech come flying out of there mouth at 90 miles an hour. It’s the one speech I hear more often from the bastards then the good job, alright your almost done with us. It’s beginning to make me wonder if that is the only thing they know how to say, and I’ll tell you it starts off with “I’m concerned…..” Let me tell you something Mr. and Mrs. I’m Concerned, “I’m concerned that you are using that statement way to much, I’m also concerned that you are spending to much time looking at the negatives then looking at the positives. I’m sure that when it comes to what your teaching us and letting use practice now, is a load of shit. I’m also under the impression that you don’t really care, and are train to feed your ‘clients’ a load of shit. I’ve also got the understanding that you love giving parents a loaded gun of information to shoot themselves in the foot with, so as a collective mass of people only in this chosen profession for money can laugh when we do and start to flounder. I really don’t think it is fair for you to do such a cruel thing to people that only want there children back, and didn’t truly know the mistakes they where making when raising there children. I’d also like to know why you feel that your methods are the ones that are the only way that work.” All of us where raised by parents, and everyones parents made a mistake in how they chose to see you through each step of your life. There are some parents that should have never been parents and yes they really do need there children taken away. Though for those of us who don’t, don’t give us information on how to take care of our child by taking care of ourselves if you are not going to mean what you say. On the other hand don’t tell us to do the right thing if your always going to allow us to hit the wall of ‘Your Wrong’. Also when a child is sick, give them a week to recover or you risk a relapse. We as adults should know this because each of us has done it to ourselves in the past, or still do it every now and again. We get sick we take care of ourselves to a point of being better, then we go back to our normal routine, and over do it, and fall back into being sick. Children are the same way, they are also more fragile when they are 4 years old because there bodies are trying to build a resistance to the viruses that live.
Take care of your kids better then you take care of yourselve, give them the needed rest they should have, even if they look,sound, or feel better. Don’t push them as you would yourself, they are not adult, they are kids, when they reach high school the teach them to be an adult.